Garnets have ancient connections with feminine life force. A garnet pendant worn close to the heart is said to promote balance and peace of mind. Although a relatively new gem, alexandrite is said to bring pleasure and love. Wear a created alexandrite pendant to attract the man of your dreams. Yellow gold brings out the bronze and golden colors inside a smoky quartz pendant. White gold will highlight the brown and grey tones of the gem. Either way, you can't go wrong.